Taking some time for yourself by simply reading a book or magazine, taking a long bath, gardening, enjoying beauty care "rituals" (such as getting your hair or nails done), and participating in a hobby or recreation are all marvellous forms of relaxation. 

Personal pleasures

Every day do something that you enjoy like reading, listening to music, gardening and sewing.

Aromatherapy, Tai chi, a warm bath, sauna or spa to relax your body, meditate or pray.

Laughter

Laughter produces endorphins in the body which help you relax and feel good about yourself.

• Bring laughter into your life by being with friends who have a good sense of humour, and watching comedy shows.

Positive thinking

Practice pushing away negative thoughts and replacing them with positive thoughts - and enjoy the relaxing effect.

• Negativity – for example ‘I fail more times than I get it right’.
   
  Try and catch yourself when you think in this unhelpful way and challenge yourself
  ‘I do get things right sometimes’.

Physical activity

Physical activity decreases muscle tension and improves concentration and self esteem.

• Walking is simple and effective, and particularly appropriate if you are starting an physical activity program.

Massage

This can be a simple hand or neck massage by a partner or friend.

• Indulge yourself occasionally or regularly with a body massage from a professional masseur.

Yoga

There are many forms of yoga, some more physical than others.

The focus, here  is on the combination of meditation with body stretches and gentle physical activity.

Content updated March 01, 2004